Welcome back to Week 2 of the Organize Your Life Challenge! Katie and I have been blown away by the enthusiasm, and I for one couldn’t be more excited about this weeks topic–parenting hacks! As a stay-at-home mom, you think you are have a ton of time each day and then the reality of the everyday sets in. Somehow, you only finally sit down at 8:30 PM and realize that it is the first time you’ve actually sat down all day. So anytime I see other moms’ parenting hacks I take note (make sure to check out Katie’s after reading this!) Being a mom is the most rewarding job; but, it is certainly not an easy one! Some of the best tricks I have learned from other moms (many other bloggers!) So here are my favorite parenting hacks!
1// Contain the Situation
No, I am not talking about dirty diapers–that in itself is another entire post! I give Jack toys to play with in his high chair so I can do the dishes and prep the meals. Bowe will often color at the same time, which helps occupy him as well. This way, I can hammer out some kitchen work and have both kids in the same room and know that they aren’t making more mess. If your baby gets antsy, then put them on the floor in the kitchen with some good ol’ pots and pans (silicone cooking utensils are a favorite as are colanders!) Baby gates also work well for younger kids; but, I know Bowe will eventually figure out how to open ours. Even if the kids are making a mess in one area of the house (the kitchen table) it is a lot easier to clean up than a mess all over the house!
This also goes for messy craft projects like painting. This weekend to occupy the kids (one of whom was sick), we did a nice hot bath and let them paint with fingerpaint in it. In the past we have even let the kids paint pumpkins in the bath. But just don’t make the same mistake I did and forget that the paint is washable. I put the pumpkins out on the front sidewalk and it rained, and all the kids hard work washed away. #momfail
Need to unload the groceries from your car and have the kids too? Unload the groceries first and then the kids if at all possible. Now, I do not mean unpack the groceries from the bags! I mean simply to bring in the groceries from the car first and leave them inside the house, right by the door. This way, the kids are not left unattended. They are safe in the car (as long as it is not summer!) It’s not like you are leaving them in the car for an extended time I am talking 1 minute extra! This literally takes 60 seconds for me to do; but, it saves a lot of headache with having the kids in the house rifling through the groceries and me trying to keep everything organized.
2// Avert Dinnertime Disaster
So this is a hack that has only taken effect in the last several months; but it has had a dramatic effect on our dinnertime. Bowe has four meals a day (breakfast, snack (around 10:30), lunch, and dinner. We really try to limit how much she snacks because I don’t think it is good to have kids snack all day (more on our food philosophy here and here.) She used to have a snack after her afternoon nap but then I found that she wasn’t ever hungry for dinner. So now, we have eliminated it for the most part; instead, we eat an early dinner. Eating before or at 6:00 PM isn’t easy but it rewards us in dividends with fewer meltdowns and tears. We are fortunate that Evan gets home early enough most days to make this a possibility. And by prepping dinner during lunchtime (when the kids are still eating/ playing) and are happy instead of waiting until 5:00, it is so much smoother!
3// Auto-populate the Schedule
Keeping a routine helps all of us function. Bowe has school three mornings a week, and we try to go to to the library one morning a week as well. That leaves on weekday open for playdates and other outings, which we schedule mid-morning as well. By keeping a routine (or trying to) it takes the guesswork out of figuring out what we are doing everyday. And it helps the kids expectations of each day. Kids thrive on routine, and it is no coincidence that on our routine days, we have fewer meltdowns. In the summer, we try to go to the pool everyday at the same time.
4// Minimize Barriers
One of the most frustrating things about having kids is how much time it takes to leave the house. No longer can you just grab your keys and go; instead, you have to get several other human beings clothed, pottyed, and into outwear. So streamlining the process as much as possible saves a lot of time and headache. I try to have my diaper bag ready to go at all times. The kids jackets and shoes always go in the same place, as do my car keys, purse, and diaper bag. The worst I will have to do is to make sure to pack a few extra diapers if I know I am running low. Somehow, I forgot my diaper bag at the library a few weeks ago and I kid you not, I was way more worried about trying to replace all the contents of the diaper bag than the material loss. It is my lifesaver and everything is in there. If you are at all interested, what I keep in there check out this post! I even made a printable checklist! AND new styles were just added to the Winter Sale and you can save as much as 40% off!
5// Keep it Silly and Distract
Whenever I sense a meltdown coming on, I try to pre-empt it by being really silly and/ or stupid. Even if it doesn’t work 100% of the time, creating a distraction tends to lessen the pushback. For example, when I tell Bowe (let’s be honest, Jack isn’t a problem yet!) that we need to go to upstairs for nap, she usually gets upset. So instead, I will make it a game. We are huge Frozen fans. So one of our favorite imaginary schemes is running away from the Snow Monster and the stairs are The North Mountain. Seriously, we have been doing this for months and it doesn’t get old. She gets more and more into it and the game more elaborate every week. And if that doesn’t work, sometimes playing dumb does. Like yesterday, she didn’t want to get changed into her pajamas for nap time (I know, I am a bit excessive but I am a total germaphobe! so there are no outside clothes permitted in the bed!) So, instead of forcing her into it, I started being silly and asking her, “ok, now these pants go on your ears, right?…Oh, no, they go on your hands…” Eventually, I ask her to show me how she puts them on.
6// Entertain on the Road
Each week when we go to the library, Bowe gets to pick out a new audiobook. Listening to audiobooks is a great way to keep the kids occupied in the car even if it is just around town, and by switching up the audiobook every week, it helps you avoid pulling your hair out! Because there are only so many times you can listen to The Little Mermaid! When we go on long road trips, I make sure to grab the road trip bag of entertainment and her tray (read all about it here.) These tricks help occupy the kids for long car trips (we drove over 80 hours this summer!)
So please spill! What are your absolute favorite parenting hacks? Make sure to check out Katie’s as well! She always has amazing tips!
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Paige @ An Uncomplicated Life Blog says
Amen to curbing the snacking! I don’t get why people let their kids eat all. day. long. Henry has one more snack in his schedule because he’s so young but I can’t wait to get rid on it and get him on the four “meals” a day plan! I never thought about audio books while on the road… Honestly, what we do is crank hip hop. The base vibrates the seat so the kids are happy and I’m not insane with baby-book-voice overload, haha!
Jacquelyn @ The Lowcountry Mama says
Unpacking groceries is always so hard! Many times she’s screaming because she hates the car so I need to take her out right away and do it all one-handed haha. We did a 5hour trip this weekend and that was the longest so far.. I’m impressed by 80 hours. AND the pots and pans on the floor while cooking is the best idea ever.. I just started doing it last week and it’s a lifesaver!
Amanda Elizabeth says
Just soaking in all this amazing knowledge for the one day. Also, men are like children so these tips are helpful in other aspects of life 😉
Brittany @ PerpetuallyDaydreaming says
These are great! Thanks for sharing. I’ve recently started doing the high chair containment trick and it really helps! I like the painting in the bathtub idea! We’ll have to try that!
Whitney Jordan says
We are working on curbing the snacking because I’ve noticed the same thing – no interest in dinner! Love the idea of audio books in the car so I’m definitely going to have to check out the selection next time I go. Unloading the groceries while the kiddos are safely seated in their car seats is a life saver!! I love the idea of painting in the bath tub, always have your diaper bag stocked and ready to head out and playing in the kitchen while you prep meals. I’d say I love having reoccurring Amazon deliveries for diapers shipped right to my door, keeping a tiny stash of books in the car for entertainment and keeping a little stash of must haves in the car just in case – diapers, wipes, blanket & outfit change.
I love this! I have also been trying to re-pack my diaper bag every time we come home from being out somewhere. I feel like it saves so much headache (and saves me from forgetting something in a hurry) when we are trying to get somewhere the next time. Great tips!
Katie @ Cup of Tea says
Kids in the car while getting the groceries inside is SUCH a life saver! So much easier. I love your tip about containing messes. It would help me let go of a potential mess if we do fun crafts! And our meal time is in a weird transition too. Our hurdle right now is that Elizabeth eats slowly, and when she sees one of us as finished, she thinks it’s time to play instead of eating! GAH! So I’ve been trying to sit her down to start eating 10 or so minutes before my husband and I do to give her a head start. And I’ve been encouraging my husband to eat slower 😉 Great tips!!!!! Can’t wait for next week!
Tiffany @ A Touch of Grace says
These are great! I totally agree with curbing the snacks. Whenever my daughter has too many, she never wants to eat dinner. And yes to audiobooks. We love them in our family! That pic of your kiddos painting in the tub….terrifies me. I know it’s all washable but oh my word I may have a heart attack, haha!
Baby Names says
Good experience, thanks for sharing!